Check whether your state or country allows alimony
Gather proof of the marriage length, income, expenses, and standard of living
Document your financial need and your spouse’s ability to pay
File for divorce or legal separation
Request alimony in your divorce petition or response
Follow all court deadlines and required forms
Attend mediation, settlement talks, or court hearings
Present evidence showing why alimony is appropriate
Ask for temporary alimony if you need support during the case
Negotiate a written agreement if possible
Obtain a court order or approved settlement for alimony
Keep records of payments and any changes in circumstances
Seek a family law attorney or legal aid if needed