Ask for clear, enthusiastic consent first
Make sure both partners are adults
Wash your hands and trim your nails
Keep the area clean and comfortable
Start slowly and pay attention to her reactions
Use kissing and gentle touching to build arousal
Focus on the clitoris, vulva, and surrounding areas
Use soft, varied tongue movements
Vary pressure, speed, and rhythm based on her feedback
Avoid using teeth or rough movements
Communicate and ask what feels good
Use plenty of saliva or a water-based lubricant if needed
Take breaks if she wants them
Stop immediately if she says to stop or seems uncomfortable
Respect boundaries and preferences throughout
Practice safer sex and consider STI protection