Ask for clear, enthusiastic consent first
Talk about preferences, boundaries, and any off-limits areas
Wash your hands and trim/file your nails
Make sure your mouth and breath are fresh
Start slowly and pay attention to her reactions
Use your tongue gently at first
Focus on the clitoris if she wants direct stimulation
Vary pressure, speed, and rhythm based on feedback
Use lips, tongue, and light suction as desired
Keep communication open throughout
Stop or change anything if she seems uncomfortable
Use plenty of saliva or a water-based lubricant if needed
Avoid teeth and rough contact
Let her guide you if she wants to
Continue only while she is enjoying it and consents