Start with a light, playful opener
Keep messages short and easy to reply to
Use teasing, not insulting, humor
Ask open-ended questions
Match their tone and pace
Show genuine interest in their day
Give specific compliments
Use a little mystery to keep things engaging
Reference shared moments or inside jokes
Be confident without being pushy
Use subtle flirtation, not overdoing it
Leave room for them to miss you
Know when to pause and let them respond
Respect boundaries and comfort levels
Keep the conversation fun and natural