Ask for consent and communicate preferences first
Use plenty of lubrication
Start slowly and vary pressure, speed, and rhythm
Use your hands along with your mouth
Pay attention to feedback and body language
Focus on comfort, not just intensity
Keep your jaw relaxed and take breaks if needed
Use your tongue to add variety
Avoid teeth and rough contact
Maintain a steady pace when something is working
Stay attentive to breathing and comfort
Keep hygiene in mind before and after
Stop if anything hurts or feels wrong