Use friendly eye contact and smile naturally
Mirror their tone and energy
Ask open-ended questions and listen closely
Compliment something specific and sincere
Keep the conversation light and playful
Use a bit of teasing, but stay respectful
Share a personal detail to create connection
Match their pace in conversation and texting
End messages or conversations with an easy, positive hook
Suggest a simple plan to continue chatting in person
Show confidence without pressure
Use their name occasionally in conversation
Pay attention to their boundaries and comfort level
Flirt with timing: pause, then respond with intent
Make it easy for them to respond with engaging questions
Use subtle body language: relaxed posture, facing them, slight lean-in
If texting, keep it warm, concise, and responsive
Avoid overly intense or sexual comments early on
Respect “no” or reduced interest immediately