Communicate clearly with your partner about what they like, what feels good, and any boundaries
Start slowly and pay attention to their reactions
Use plenty of saliva or a water-based lubricant if needed
Vary pressure, speed, and technique rather than repeating one motion
Use your hands along with your mouth to reduce strain and improve control
Focus on comfort and rhythm instead of forcing depth or speed
Keep your jaw relaxed and take breaks if needed
Use your tongue to add variety and stimulation
Maintain a comfortable position for both of you
Pay attention to hygiene and cleanliness
Stop immediately if anything hurts or feels wrong
Respect consent at all times