How To Give A Hickey?

Create consent and clear communication before any skin contact

Choose a safe area with thicker skin (commonly upper chest, upper arm, or shoulder)

Use gentle pressure with clean hands

Apply suction briefly using your mouth or fingers (light, short contact)

Keep contact time short to reduce risk of excessive bruising

Release pressure gradually

Avoid pressing too hard or holding too long

Check the area during and after contact for discomfort

Stop if pain, numbness, or skin irritation occurs

Avoid sensitive areas (neck, face, over bones, or near arteries/veins) and any broken or irritated skin

Do not attempt if you have bleeding/clotting disorders or take blood thinners

Seek medical care for severe swelling, spreading bruising, intense pain, or vision/neurologic symptoms

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