Communicate clearly about likes, dislikes, boundaries, and consent before and during
Start slowly and build up gradually
Pay attention to your partner’s reactions and adjust accordingly
Use your hands to complement what you’re doing
Vary pressure, speed, and rhythm instead of staying repetitive
Focus on consistency once you find something that works
Keep your jaw, neck, and hands relaxed to avoid fatigue
Maintain good hygiene and a comfortable setup
Use plenty of saliva or a safe lubricant if needed
Avoid using your teeth unless your partner explicitly likes that
Check in verbally or nonverbally to make sure everything feels good
Take breaks if needed and keep the experience playful
Respect any stop signal immediately