Ask for clear consent first
Communicate about likes, dislikes, and boundaries
Keep good hygiene
Use plenty of lubrication if needed
Start slowly and build up gradually
Pay attention to reactions and adjust accordingly
Use your hands along with your mouth if desired
Vary pressure, speed, and technique
Focus on comfort and responsiveness
Avoid teeth unless specifically desired and controlled
Take breaks if needed
Keep breathing and stay relaxed
Check in verbally during the moment
Stop immediately if asked to stop
Respect privacy and mutual comfort