Meet Dorian at the Black Emporium in Skyhold after recruiting him
Increase his approval by supporting mages, helping the Inquisition, and choosing witty or compassionate dialogue
Avoid approving of slavery, blood magic, or overly cruel choices
Complete Dorian’s personal quest, “Last Resort of Good Men”
Speak with Dorian regularly at Skyhold to trigger romance dialogue
Choose the flirtatious dialogue options whenever they appear
Tell Dorian you are interested in him during his personal conversations
Continue flirting after his personal quest to lock in the romance
Keep his approval high throughout the main story
Finish the romance conversation at Skyhold to confirm the relationship
If you want to pursue other romances first, be aware Dorian’s romance is exclusive once committed
For the “Date Everything” style approach, prioritize every available flirt option with Dorian at each opportunity