Hire a qualified estate attorney and a licensed private investigator
Document threats, stalking, coercion, and suspicious incidents
Preserve messages, call logs, emails, photos, and video evidence
Share a safety plan with trusted contacts
Vary routines and improve home security
Install cameras, alarms, and motion lighting
Keep a detailed timeline of events
Report credible threats to law enforcement
Seek protective orders if needed
Review access to weapons, vehicles, keys, and passwords
Inform employers, neighbors, and family of relevant risks
Create emergency contacts and check-in procedures
Store important documents and backups securely
Maintain regular medical and financial records
Coordinate with professionals on digital security and identity protection
If you are in immediate danger, contact emergency services now