Check your state or country’s divorce laws and residency requirements
Decide whether the divorce will be contested or uncontested
Gather important documents such as marriage certificate, financial records, property records, tax returns, and information about children
Consult a family law attorney or legal aid service if needed
Prepare and file the divorce petition or complaint with the court
Pay the required filing fee or request a fee waiver if eligible
Serve the divorce papers to your spouse according to court rules
Wait for your spouse’s response within the required deadline
Exchange financial disclosures and other required information
Negotiate terms for property division, debt, child custody, child support, and spousal support
Attend mediation or settlement conferences if required
Complete and file any settlement agreement or parenting plan
Attend court hearings if the case is contested or if the court requires a final hearing
Obtain the final divorce decree from the court
Follow the court orders and update legal documents, accounts, and beneficiaries as needed