Start with a simple, friendly opener
Mention how you know her if relevant
Keep the first text short
Ask an easy question
Use a casual tone
Avoid overly flirty messages at first
Don’t send a long paragraph
Don’t overthink the first message
Match her energy and style
Be respectful and confident
Give her time to reply
Don’t double-text immediately
Keep the conversation light
Focus on getting a response, not impressing her
End the message with something easy to answer