Start by identifying who the person was and what made them unique
Choose a tone that matches the person and the occasion
Gather memories, stories, and key life moments
Focus on their character, values, and impact on others
Include a few specific anecdotes that feel personal and meaningful
Mention family, friends, work, community, or passions if relevant
Keep the language simple, sincere, and respectful
Balance sadness with gratitude and celebration of life
Organize the eulogy with a clear beginning, middle, and end
Write a brief opening that acknowledges the loss
Share the most important memories and qualities in the main section
End with a heartfelt farewell or lasting message
Keep it concise enough to hold attention
Read it aloud and revise for flow and clarity
Practice beforehand to feel more comfortable speaking
Bring a printed copy or notes to the service
Pause when needed and speak slowly
Be authentic and speak from the heart