Stay calm and keep your voice low
Move other children away for safety
Block hits gently without grabbing tightly
Use short, clear commands like “No hitting” or “Hands down”
Reduce noise, crowding, and other triggers
Watch for warning signs before hitting starts
Remove the child from the situation if needed
Offer a safe break space
Teach and practice replacement actions like “tap shoulder,” “ask for space,” or “use words”
Use visual supports for rules and routines
Reinforce calm hands immediately
Praise and reward gentle behavior
Keep routines predictable
Track when, where, and why hitting happens
Address sensory needs with appropriate tools
Teach emotion words and coping skills
Model gentle touch consistently
Coordinate with a pediatrician or behavioral specialist
Follow a behavior plan if one is in place
Seek urgent help if the child is seriously hurting others or themselves