Choose a consistent potty spot and keep it in the same location
Pick a potty or child-sized toilet seat that your boy can sit on comfortably
Start when he shows readiness signs (stays dry for 2 hours, shows discomfort with a full diaper, can follow simple instructions)
Set a routine: sit on the potty after waking, after meals, and before bedtime
Use a consistent cue phrase each time (for example, “time to try”)
Keep sessions short (about 3–5 minutes)
Use underwear or training pants during the day once you’re ready to start practice
Encourage him to drink fluids regularly to support regular bathroom trips
Teach the steps: pull pants down, sit, try, wipe, pull pants up, wash hands
Help him aim correctly if he stands to pee (or have him sit to make it easier at first)
Keep a reward ready for success (stickers, small treats, extra playtime)
Praise effort immediately after he tries or succeeds
Avoid punishment or negative reactions for accidents
Respond calmly to accidents and help him clean up quickly and without scolding
Change out of wet/soiled underwear promptly and reset the routine
Watch for “tells” (fidgeting, hiding, going quiet) and take him to the potty right away
Consider using a timer every 30–60 minutes during the initial phase to reduce accidents
During the day, avoid diapers once training is started unless accidents are frequent or he can’t recognize the need
Use a diaper only for naps and nighttime at first if needed
Practice night training later when he stays dry most mornings for several days
For nighttime, limit drinks 1–2 hours before bed and use a simple bedtime routine
If he wakes up wet often, keep using nighttime protection and continue daytime training
Keep wipes and a spare set of clothes accessible at all times
When you go out, plan potty breaks and bring extra underwear/training pants, wipes, and a change of clothes
Expect progress over weeks; keep going with consistency and patience
Stop training for a short time if there’s a major disruption (illness, travel, new sibling) and restart when stable
Seek pediatric advice if there’s no progress after several weeks, painful urination, constipation, or frequent accidents