Be sure about your decision before you talk to him
Choose a private, calm, and safe place to talk
Be direct and honest about ending the relationship
Use clear language and avoid mixed signals
Keep the message brief and respectful
Focus on your feelings and needs, not blame
Avoid debating or negotiating if you are certain
Set boundaries about future contact if needed
Return any belongings and collect yours
End the conversation if it becomes disrespectful or unsafe
Block or limit contact if that helps you move on
Tell trusted friends or family for support
Take time to process the breakup and care for yourself