Get clear, enthusiastic consent first
Talk about preferences, boundaries, and any no-go areas
Make sure both of you are comfortable and relaxed
Keep your hands clean and nails trimmed
Use plenty of saliva or a water-based lubricant if desired
Start slowly and pay attention to his reactions
Use your lips to protect your teeth
Vary pressure, speed, and rhythm
Combine mouth and hand if comfortable
Focus on what feels good for him, not just technique
Breathe through your nose and take breaks as needed
Watch for signs of discomfort and adjust immediately
Keep communication open during the moment
Stop if either person wants to stop
Practice safer sex and consider STI protection