Ask for clear consent first
Communicate about likes, dislikes, and boundaries
Keep good hygiene
Use plenty of saliva or a water-based lubricant if desired
Start slowly and pay attention to reactions
Use your hand to control pressure and rhythm
Vary speed and technique gently
Avoid using teeth
Focus on comfort and responsiveness
Pause or stop if there is pain or discomfort
Check in verbally if needed
Respect any request to stop immediately