Get clear, enthusiastic consent first
Agree on where it is okay to place it
Make sure the skin is healthy and unbroken
Start with gentle kissing and light suction
Use soft pressure rather than force
Keep the suction brief to avoid pain or injury
Watch your partner’s reactions and stop if they seem uncomfortable
Avoid sensitive areas like the throat or anywhere with bruising concerns
Be aware that love bites can leave visible marks for days
Afterward, check in with your partner and make sure they feel okay