Ask for clear, enthusiastic consent first
Make sure both of you are comfortable, sober enough, and in a private setting
Wash your hands and trim your nails
Start with kissing and touching to build comfort
Pay attention to her reactions and ask what she likes
Move slowly and avoid rushing
Focus on the outer areas first
Use gentle, varied pressure
Keep communication open with simple check-ins
Stop immediately if she says no, seems uncomfortable, or asks you to
Respect boundaries at all times