He shows consistent care, not just occasional affection
He listens to you and remembers what matters to you
He respects your boundaries and your opinions
He makes time for you even when he is busy
He supports your goals and wants you to succeed
He is honest with you, even when the truth is difficult
He includes you in his plans and thinks about the future with you
He apologizes and takes responsibility when he is wrong
He treats you with kindness in private and in public
He is reliable and follows through on what he says
He wants to understand your feelings, not just be understood
He makes you feel safe, valued, and appreciated
He is willing to compromise and work through problems
He does not play games or keep you guessing about his intentions
He stays present during hard times, not only good times
He respects your independence and does not try to control you
His actions match his words over time
He makes you feel loved without making you beg for it