Determine the type of order you need: domestic violence, harassment, stalking, civil harassment, or emergency protection
Gather evidence: texts, emails, voicemails, photos, videos, police reports, witness statements, and incident dates
Write down a detailed timeline of threats, abuse, harassment, or unwanted contact
Contact your local courthouse, clerk of court, or family court to get the correct forms
Ask whether you can request an emergency or temporary restraining order
Fill out the petition and affidavit forms completely and accurately
File the forms with the court clerk
Ask the clerk about any filing fees and fee waivers if needed
Attend the judge’s hearing if one is scheduled
Bring copies of all evidence and any witnesses if allowed
Follow the court’s instructions for serving the other person with the papers
Keep proof of service and file it with the court if required
Go to the final hearing and explain why the order is needed
Request specific protections such as no contact, stay-away distance, and firearm surrender if applicable
Keep a copy of the signed order with you at all times
Give copies of the order to your workplace, school, security, or landlord if needed
Call law enforcement immediately if the order is violated
Renew or extend the order before it expires if you still need protection