Talk openly about fantasies, boundaries, and turn-ons
Try a new setting or time of day
Change the pace and rhythm
Use sensual massage
Add more foreplay
Experiment with different positions
Try roleplay
Use blindfolds or other light sensory play
Introduce toys if both partners agree
Wear something that makes you feel confident
Create a mood with lighting and music
Send flirty messages earlier in the day
Focus on teasing and anticipation
Take turns leading
Explore each other’s erogenous zones
Try mutual masturbation
Make eye contact and slow things down
Use temperature play with warm or cool sensations
Read or watch erotic content together if mutually comfortable
Prioritize consent, comfort, and communication