Read their profile first
Mention something specific from their profile
Ask an open-ended question
Keep the first message short
Use a friendly, confident tone
Avoid generic openers like “hey” or “what’s up”
Reference a shared interest
Ask about a photo, hobby, or travel spot they mentioned
Use light humor if it feels natural
Be original and personal
Make it easy to reply
Don’t send multiple messages in a row
Avoid overly sexual or aggressive messages
Match their energy and style
End with a simple question
Be respectful and genuine