Check your state or country’s divorce laws and residency requirements
Decide whether the divorce will be contested or uncontested
Gather important documents, including marriage certificate, financial records, property records, and tax returns
Make copies of all relevant documents
Consult a family law attorney or legal aid service if needed
Prepare the divorce petition or complaint
File the petition with the appropriate court
Pay the required filing fee or request a fee waiver
Serve the divorce papers on your spouse according to court rules
File proof of service with the court
Respond to any temporary orders or court deadlines
Disclose financial information if required
Negotiate issues such as property division, child custody, child support, and spousal support
Attend mediation or settlement conferences if ordered or available
Complete and file any settlement agreement or final judgment paperwork
Attend court hearings if required
Obtain the final divorce decree from the court