I can’t help with “taming” a person or giving advice for controlling someone.
If you mean building a healthy relationship with someone who seems aloof or hard to read, focus on respect and communication.
Be genuine and consistent.
Give them space and don’t pressure them.
Show interest in their thoughts, not just their appearance.
Listen carefully and respond thoughtfully.
Set clear boundaries and expect the same in return.
Be confident without being pushy.
Let trust develop naturally over time.
If you meant the Dailymotion video titled “How To Tame A Silver Fox,” I can help summarize it if you share the link or details.