Be clear, respectful, and confident
Start with a simple, relevant opener
Match her energy and pace
Ask open-ended questions
Keep messages short and natural
Show genuine interest in her life
Use humor lightly if it feels natural
Avoid overtexting or double texting too much
Don’t be sexual or pushy early on
Don’t interview her with endless questions
Share a little about yourself too
Use proper spelling and punctuation
Suggest a specific plan if the conversation is going well
Respect her boundaries and response time
If she’s not interested, move on politely