Open Instagram and go to the person’s profile
Tap Message
Send a simple, polite first message
Mention something specific from their profile if relevant
Keep the message short and clear
Ask an easy question to start the conversation
Reply promptly if they respond
Stay respectful and avoid being pushy
Do not send repeated messages if they do not reply
Use a friendly tone
Avoid sharing personal information too early
Keep the conversation natural and brief at first
Move on if they seem uninterested
Follow Instagram’s community guidelines