Get clear, enthusiastic consent first
Communicate openly about preferences, boundaries, and comfort
Create a relaxed, private, pressure-free environment
Focus on arousal and trust rather than a specific outcome
Use plenty of lubrication
Stimulate the clitoris consistently and gently at first
Explore internal stimulation only if the person wants it
Combine external and internal stimulation if desired
Maintain steady rhythm and pressure, adjusting to feedback
Pay attention to breathing, muscle tension, and verbal cues
Encourage the person to relax and not hold back
Keep checking in about comfort and pleasure
Stop immediately if there is pain, discomfort, or hesitation
Accept that squirting is not guaranteed and is not required for satisfaction