Ask for clear, enthusiastic consent and talk about what she likes
Focus on her comfort, trust, and relaxation
Spend plenty of time on foreplay
Pay attention to her breathing, sounds, and body language
Use plenty of lubrication if needed
Stimulate the clitoris, since many women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm
Combine clitoral stimulation with penetration if she enjoys it
Try different rhythms, pressure, and angles
Encourage her to guide your hand, mouth, or movements
Keep a steady pace once she says something feels good
Avoid rushing or changing techniques too often
Let her take the lead on what feels best
Communicate during sex about what is working
Be patient, since orgasm can take time
Respect that orgasm is not guaranteed every time