Ask for clear, enthusiastic consent first
Wash your hands and trim your nails
Make sure both partners are comfortable and relaxed
Start with gentle kissing and touching around the thighs and hips
Use slow, light licks and soft pressure at first
Pay attention to your partner’s reactions and adjust accordingly
Focus on the clitoris and surrounding areas if your partner wants that
Vary speed, pressure, and rhythm based on feedback
Use your lips, tongue, and mouth comfortably without rushing
Keep communication open during the experience
Stop immediately if your partner says to stop or seems uncomfortable
Clean up afterward and check in with each other