Ask for consent clearly and enthusiastically
Confirm boundaries and any hard limits beforehand
Use protection (e.g., dental dams or condoms) as appropriate
Use plenty of lube to reduce friction
Keep nails trimmed and hands clean
Start slowly and communicate throughout
Use gentle pressure and adjust based on feedback
Maintain hygiene before and after (wash hands, clean toys if used)
Avoid if either partner has infections, sores, or active symptoms
Stop immediately if there is pain or discomfort
Consider going to the bathroom beforehand
Keep a towel nearby to manage mess
Wash thoroughly after, and avoid re-entering without cleaning if switching areas