Ask for clear consent before any sexual activity
Use lubrication to reduce friction
Position your partner comfortably and communicate regularly
Start slowly and pay attention to their responses
Use a relaxed grip and vary pressure based on feedback
Keep your mouth and tongue coordinated with their pace
Focus on what feels good for them and adjust immediately
Maintain eye contact or check in verbally if they like that
Use your hand to support and guide as desired
Avoid any actions that cause pain or discomfort
Keep breathing steady and take breaks as needed
Watch for signs of overstimulation and slow down or stop accordingly
Stop immediately if they say so or if they show discomfort
Use condoms or dental dams if there’s a risk or preference
Avoid oral sex if you have sores, bleeding gums, or active STIs
Clean up afterward and wash hands
Discuss boundaries and preferences for next time