Ask for clear, enthusiastic consent before starting
Make sure both of you are comfortable, relaxed, and private
Keep communication open about what feels good and what does not
Start slowly and pay attention to her reactions
Use gentle kissing and touching around the thighs, hips, and vulva
Focus on the clitoris, but vary pressure and rhythm
Use your tongue softly and steadily rather than rushing
Alternate between licking, sucking gently, and light teasing if she likes it
Use your hands to touch areas she enjoys while keeping your mouth engaged
Watch for signs of pleasure and adjust based on her feedback
Ask what she prefers if you are unsure
Maintain good hygiene before and during
Stop immediately if she says to stop or seems uncomfortable