Research the type of religious life that fits you (contemplative, active service, missionary, cloistered, diocesan, or order-based)
Contact local convents/communities to ask about their vocation process
Attend an information session, retreat, or scheduled visit if offered
Talk with a vocation director or spiritual director
Begin regular prayer and spiritual practices (Mass, Liturgy of the Hours, confession, adoration if appropriate)
Meet regularly for discernment conversations
Meet basic requirements of the community you’re considering (age, education, health, background, and any specific criteria)
Prepare for initial stages such as candidacy/aspulantate/postulancy (varies by community)
Submit required paperwork and documentation requested by the community
Receive guidance on community rules, prayer schedule, and expectations
Demonstrate commitment through service, obedience, and participation in community life
If invited, enter the next stage of formation (postulancy/candidacy/novitiate, depending on the community)
Complete the novitiate formation period if required
Study the community’s charism, theology, vows, and rules
Live the community’s schedule and participate in apostolic work appropriate to the community
Make temporary vows if the community requires them and you discern a call
Continue formation, evaluation, and spiritual growth during temporary vows
Make final (perpetual) vows if invited and you discern a lasting call
If at any point you discern you’re not being called, communicate promptly with the vocation director
If you already belong to a religious order, follow that order’s specific process for discernment and vows