Stay calm and lower your voice
Pause before responding
Set clear, simple rules
Give one instruction at a time
Use consistent consequences
Follow through every time
Praise good behavior immediately
Redirect unwanted behavior
Offer choices when possible
Use natural consequences
Remove privileges when needed
Use time-outs appropriately
Keep routines predictable
Model the behavior you want
Avoid arguing or lecturing
Speak respectfully
Focus on the behavior, not the child
Use short, firm statements
Acknowledge feelings without giving in
Teach better alternatives
Repair and reconnect after conflict