Ask open-ended questions
Listen actively
Build on what they said
Share related experiences
Use follow-up questions
Show genuine interest
Mention shared topics
Keep your responses balanced
Avoid one-word replies
Use names naturally
Notice and comment on details
Change topics smoothly
Be curious
Match their energy
Give thoughtful reactions
Pause before changing subjects
Bring up current events
Talk about hobbies and interests
Ask for opinions
Clarify vague answers
Keep the tone friendly
Be present in the moment
Remember previous details
Invite them to elaborate
Stay positive when possible
Let silence happen briefly