Use the names exactly as they appear on the announcement
Address the envelope to the person or couple named on the announcement
For a married couple, use both names unless the announcement specifies otherwise
For a same-sex couple, use both names in the order shown on the announcement
For an individual, use their full name and preferred title if known
For a family, address it to the parents or household name if indicated
Use formal titles such as Mr., Ms., Mrs., Dr., or Mx. when appropriate
Spell names correctly and use the preferred spelling
Include the full mailing address on the envelope
Use a respectful salutation if writing a note inside
Match the level of formality used by the couple
If unsure, use the names listed on the invitation or announcement exactly
Avoid nicknames unless the couple uses them publicly
Use “and” between names for married couples
Use “The” before a family name only if it fits the format being used
Keep the addressing neat and legible
