Decide that you want an elopement and agree on your priorities
Set a date and choose a location
Check legal marriage requirements for the place you plan to marry
Obtain the required marriage license and documents
Decide whether you want a officiant, witnesses, or a self-solemnized ceremony
Choose simple attire that fits the setting
Book any needed travel, lodging, or permits
Hire only the vendors you truly want, if any
Tell family and friends only if and when you want to
Plan a private ceremony script or vows
Arrange photography if you want to capture the day
Pack essentials for the ceremony and travel
Go through the ceremony and sign the marriage paperwork
Celebrate afterward in a way that feels meaningful to you
Notify relevant institutions after the marriage if needed