Praise effort, not just results
Give specific, sincere compliments
Let them make age-appropriate choices
Encourage trying new activities
Allow mistakes and treat them as learning
Set realistic goals they can achieve
Break big tasks into small steps
Teach problem-solving skills
Listen actively and take their feelings seriously
Avoid harsh criticism and comparisons
Model self-confidence and positive self-talk
Give them responsibilities at home
Celebrate progress, not perfection
Support their interests and strengths
Encourage independence gradually
Help them practice social skills
Show unconditional love and acceptance
Keep routines predictable and supportive
Let them speak for themselves when possible
Acknowledge their achievements openly