Get clear, enthusiastic consent from all involved
Talk openly about boundaries, comfort, and stop signals
Use plenty of lubricant
Start with plenty of foreplay and relaxation
Begin very slowly with a finger or small toy if desired
Stop immediately if there is pain, numbness, or bleeding
Use condoms to reduce the risk of STIs and infections
Change condoms if switching between anal and vaginal contact
Keep everything clean before and after
Never force penetration
Avoid using numbing products
Consider a medical checkup if there are ongoing issues or pain