Ask for clear, enthusiastic consent first
Talk about boundaries, preferences, and any health concerns
Wash hands and keep nails trimmed
Start slowly and pay attention to verbal and nonverbal feedback
Use plenty of saliva or a body-safe lubricant if needed
Focus on comfort and relaxation
Vary pressure, speed, and technique based on feedback
Avoid teeth and any rough contact
Stop immediately if there is pain, discomfort, or a request to stop
Maintain hygiene before and after
Consider STI protection such as barriers if relevant
Respect privacy and mutual consent throughout