Get clear, enthusiastic consent from all involved before anything happens
Talk openly about boundaries, preferences, and what is off-limits
Make sure everyone is of legal age and able to consent
Use protection to reduce the risk of STIs and pregnancy
Communicate during sex about comfort, pace, and what feels good
Stop immediately if anyone wants to stop or feels uncomfortable
Respect privacy, dignity, and boundaries at all times
Practice good hygiene before and after
Be sober enough to make safe, informed decisions
Check in afterward and make sure everyone feels okay