Ask for enthusiastic, explicit consent before starting
Make sure she wants oral sex and is comfortable continuing
Wash your hands and trim your nails
Brush your teeth and rinse your mouth first
Create a relaxed, private, comfortable setting
Start with kissing and touching to build arousal
Pay attention to her reactions and ask what she likes
Use your tongue gently at first
Focus on the clitoris, but avoid direct, intense pressure right away
Vary pressure, speed, and rhythm based on her response
Use your lips and tongue together if she enjoys it
Keep communication open during the act
Stop immediately if she says to stop or seems uncomfortable
Use lubrication if needed and if she prefers it
Avoid teeth and rough movements
Be patient and prioritize her pleasure over a fixed technique
Afterward, check in with her and respect her feelings