Use clean hands and short nails
Get clear consent first
Start slowly and gently
Use a water-based lubricant if needed
Rub the clitoral hood or surrounding area, not just the tip
Use light pressure at first
Try small circles, side-to-side strokes, or gentle tapping
Watch for feedback and adjust pressure, speed, and rhythm
Avoid direct, intense pressure if it feels too sensitive
Keep communication open about what feels good
Stop if there is pain, discomfort, or numbness