Get clear, enthusiastic consent first
Discuss boundaries, preferences, and any hard limits
Make sure both people feel comfortable and relaxed
Wash hands and keep good personal hygiene
Use protection if needed, such as a condom or dental dam
Start slowly and pay attention to verbal and nonverbal feedback
Communicate throughout and check in often
Stop immediately if there is pain, discomfort, or a request to stop
Avoid oral sex if either person has sores, bleeding, or signs of infection
Consider STI testing and safer-sex practices regularly
Respect privacy and consent at all times