Make sure both people clearly want to have sex
Talk openly about boundaries, protection, and what you are comfortable with
Choose a private, safe, and unhurried place
Use protection to reduce the risk of pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections
Consider getting tested for STIs beforehand
Use plenty of water-based or silicone-based lubricant
Go slowly and check in with each other often
Stop if there is pain, fear, or discomfort
Relax, breathe, and take your time
Focus on mutual comfort and consent rather than performance
Have a plan for aftercare, including cleanup and emotional support
Seek medical advice if there is severe pain, bleeding, or other concerns