Get clear, enthusiastic consent from everyone involved
Discuss boundaries, limits, and expectations beforehand
Talk about safer sex, STI testing, and contraception
Choose a setting where everyone feels comfortable and private
Agree on what is and is not allowed before anything starts
Make sure no one is pressured, intoxicated, or unable to consent
Check in with everyone during the experience
Stop immediately if anyone changes their mind
Respect privacy and confidentiality afterward
Talk afterward about how everyone felt and whether to do it again